JPG40504
02-21-2009, 12:51 AM
Hi Ed,
I tried to send a PM to you, but you have disabled that function, along with the e-mail function. I enjoy your input, and I take the time to read your links. I am sure that most members here do so.
I second that also! There is so much positive in his contributions to this forum, that I hope he doesn't let this nonsense get to him. We are ALL individuals as you have already pointed out AND we come from different backgrounds, experience and life experiences. I hope he has not decided to become a Hermit!
One thing about curmudgeons(myself included) is we seem to have a low tolerance of other curmudgeons! That is where WE get into trouble! We just cannot let things alone when we think another is slightly off track. If the 'other' one gets defensive, then problems begin and each one thinks the other has an Attitude. They are BOTH probably right, but the only way to 'correct' those attitudes is to let the other one know that IS your opinion. Hopefully the 'other' one does some self examination and correctly sees the true situation. I have encountered criticism on this forum and usually there is more correctness to that 'opinion' than not. Believe it or not I have learned to to things differently in my short tenure.
I just get frustrated with folks who get testy for no good reason!:)
I tried to send a PM to you, but you have disabled that function, along with the e-mail function. I enjoy your input, and I take the time to read your links. I am sure that most members here do so.
I second that also! There is so much positive in his contributions to this forum, that I hope he doesn't let this nonsense get to him. We are ALL individuals as you have already pointed out AND we come from different backgrounds, experience and life experiences. I hope he has not decided to become a Hermit!
One thing about curmudgeons(myself included) is we seem to have a low tolerance of other curmudgeons! That is where WE get into trouble! We just cannot let things alone when we think another is slightly off track. If the 'other' one gets defensive, then problems begin and each one thinks the other has an Attitude. They are BOTH probably right, but the only way to 'correct' those attitudes is to let the other one know that IS your opinion. Hopefully the 'other' one does some self examination and correctly sees the true situation. I have encountered criticism on this forum and usually there is more correctness to that 'opinion' than not. Believe it or not I have learned to to things differently in my short tenure.
I just get frustrated with folks who get testy for no good reason!:)